Sex Coaching for Committed Couples

Attention Sex Coaches: Are Your Clients Stuck in a Sexual Rut?

Stuck in a Sexual Rut

Most loving, committed couples get stuck in a sexual rut at some point in their relationship. They are not dysfunctional, they are just stuck.

Often troubling thoughts andpainful emotions about their own sexuality or their sexual relationship create barriers that keep them stuck in a sexual rut.

You don’t have to be a sex therapist to help them.  Read on to  find out how you can use Acceptance and Commitment (AC) Coaching to help them get unstuck while earning 10 CEUs.

Why I Can Help

Hi, I’m Dr. Rich Blonna.  As a Nationally-Certified Coach (BCC), Counselor (NCC) and Health Education Specialist (CHES) specializing in Human Sexuality and Stress Management I have worked with thousands of students and clients who were in  loving, committed relationships but stuck in a sexual rut.  For many, the sexual part of their relationships became a source of stress instead of a stress reliever.

Sexual Thinking and Feeling Traps

As relationships change over time, so do sexual attitudes and values yet many clients fail to realize this, accept it, and embrace the changes while moving forward in their relationships. Instead, many fall victim to sexual thinking and feeling traps that undermine the sexual part of their relationships and in turn their overall relationships.

As someone who has been married to the same woman for 46 years I understand how this happens. It has been an interesting journey, falling in love with my wife in my teens, marrying her at the age of 20, and essentially growing up together. At 66 I have experienced the effects of both aging and time on myself, my wife, and our relationship. I have watched my sexual relationship attitudes and values evolve over 46 years and know how easy it is to fall prey to thinking and feeling traps about sex .

Acceptance and Commitment (AC) Coaching

Fortunately, I discovered Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and became a pioneer in applying its principles and practices to human sexuality. Recently I have been involved in the new field of Acceptance and Commitment (AC) Coaching, which took the healing practices of ACT and applied them to Coaching.

AC Coaching is perfectly suited for helping clients manage thinking and feeling traps about their personal sexuality and their sexual relationships that cause them to fall into a sexual rut. It uses simple but powerful mental techniques to help clients understand their sexual relationship values and goals and examine how their thoughts and feelings either support or undermine them.

I know these techniques work because I have used them with thousands of students and clients and personally in my own loving, committed, 46 year marriage.

What I Can’t Promise You

I can’t promise you that after employing my training techniques your clients will have perfect, stress-free sexual relationships. Honestly, such a thing just doesn’t exist.  There are still times when I struggle with unhelpful thoughts and feelings about my personal sexuality and my sexual relationship. Your clients have jobs, mortgages, aging parents, children, and a host of other responsibilities. All of these responsibilities (and more) demand their time and energy and create troubling thoughts and painful emotions that impact their sexual relationships.

What I Can Promise You 

What I can promise you is that after taking my course and teaching  your clients my methods, they will be able to recognize the barriers that get and keep them stuck in a sexual rut. They also will be able to use simple but powerful AC Coaching mental techniques to break through these barriers, get unstuck, and create stronger sexual relationship bonds and greater pleasure.

I feel so strongly about this that I wrote a book on the subject. It is the only book on the market that applies the principles and practices Acceptance and Commitment Coaching and  ACT to sexuality and sexual relationships.

The book was just too hot to handle by most publishers so I had to turn to Amazon to bring it to the public.  This book became the framework for my 10 CEU Coaching course.

After Taking The 10 CEU Program, You Will Be Able To Help Your Clients:

  • Improve their understanding of their personal sexuality.
  • Identify thinking and feeling traps that create sexual barriers that get them stuck.
  • Get Unstuck by becoming more psychologically flexible.
  • Enjoy Sex More by using acceptance, commitment, and other AC Coaching techniques.
  • Strengthen their Commitments to their husbands, wives, or partners.
  • Strengthen their Overall Relationships by enhancing their sexual relationship.

The 10 CEU Program, AC Coaching: Sexual Relationship Coaching for Committed Couplesis a 10 session training program that integrates content from my best-selling self-help book, my college Human Sexuality Textbook, my interactive Human Sexuality course that I taught to thousands of students online, and my sex coaching work with students and clients.

I know what you are probably thinking, “Who has the time to learn all this AC Sex Coaching  training?”

If you are like most coaches, counselors, or educators I’ve worked with over the years, your greatest barriers to learning new information and skills are TIME, MONEY, and LACK of FLEXIBILITY.

Does this sound familiar?

  • You are too busy seeing clients to get the training you need.
  • Work and family commitments force you to cancel out of the webinars and programs that you sign up for.
  • You’ve paid hundreds of dollars for courses that don’t give you what you need to help your clients.
  • You can’t find training courses that deliver the specific sexual relationship information you want with the access you need.

This is where I can help.

The 10 CEU Program, AC Coaching: Sexual Relationship Coaching for Committed Couples, is designed for busy, working professionals just like you who want easy access to training when they need it and in a format they can use.

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The AC Coaching: Sexual Relationship Coaching for Committed Couples course it is a complete course that you download and own.  You can watch (video) or listen to (audio ) the course lectures at your convenience. The Course  is broken down into short training sessions (20-30 minutes long) that have everything you need to make the content instantly usable.

  • background resources
  • step-by-step instructions
  • activities
  • videos
  • audio files
  • access to Dr Rich via email and phone

Here is what you get in the 10 CEU Program; AC Coaching: Sexual Relationship Coaching for Committed Couples


 10 Sessions (video, audio files)

 17 Lectures  (video, audio files)  

 34 Activities (PDF File)

    8 Mp3 Audio Files (Mindful Sex Album)

    1 E-Book (Sex-ACT PDF file)*

    1 Ch. 08 Blonna Textbook (Healthy Sexuality PDF File)*

    1 Quick Start Guide

Healthy Sexuality - Dr. Rich Blonna

* These two books serve as the course manual and provide extensive referenced background content.

Plus: 10 CEUs towards your credential

You get all of this for only $360.00.

Isn’t it worth $36/credit to learn from one of the world’s leading experts on the subject?

So, what are you waiting for?

Sign up right now for the 10 CEU Program, 

AC Coaching: Sexual Relationship Coaching for Committed Couples

  Here is what others have to say about my work:

I had learned about ACT coaching in my life coach training program, and had read Dr. Blonna’s book, MAXIMIZE YOUR COACHING EFFECTIVENESS WITH ACCEPTANCE AND COMMITMENT THERAPY. The approach really resonated with me, so I put this line on my never ending to do list: “Find more ACT coach training.”

 As life stayed busy, and my teen life coaching business flourished, I realized that the greatest struggle my clients presented with was anxiety. When I reached out to my coaching trainer, asking what I should study to support youth with anxiety, her reply closed the loop: “Study ACT.”  A quick Google search netted this course. When I learned I’d earn CCEs toward my ICF recertification through completing it, the deal was sealed!

 I got so much more out of this course than I did from reading the book. By watching a video, taking in-depth notes, and putting the strategies into action, I wasn’t learning ACT, I was practicing it. The results were immediate and, dare I say, miraculous. A kid I’ve coached on and off for years used the mindfulness tools we worked on, and came back next session saying it was “the most powerful experience of her life.” And on a personal note, while doing one of the strategies taught in the course, I realized I’d been looking at my body, and my eating habits, through 30-year-old relational frames. This sounds like the cheesiest of infomercial lines, but it’s 100% true (I’ll send you the Fitbit screenshot!): within two weeks, I had dropped 5.4 pounds I’d been unable to lose for decades.

Long short: if you want to learn strategies to help your clients (or yourself!) make quantifiable shifts in their lives—and if you’re willing to put in the mental work to not just watch the videos, but use the tools—don’t hesitate. Take this course!

-Cyndy Etler / MEd, ICF ACC / founder, The Teen Life Coach / award-winning author, The Dead Inside


Dr. Rich:  I feel like I know you after watching and listening to you through your CEU Training Program!!  I’m thrilled with what I have gained and how it already enriches my coaching.  Thank you so much for the content, your commitment, and for making the program so easily accessible. I greatly appreciate the insight and tools I’ve gained through this program, and wish you well in your life’s journey.

Best regards,

– Betty Bowman, Executive/Leadership Coach & CCE Board Certified Coach                                                                                  

As a CPA in public practice, the thought that another stress-filled tax season was approaching was depressing. I decided to do something about it. Dr. Rich’s program delivers as advertised! I have gotten into an exercise routine, lost some weight and feel better. I have even started to meditate. I find that the little things at work aren’t bothering me as much. I also find that my “road rage” stress has decreased. I hope to maintain these improvements during my next few stressful work months, and I look forward to further improvement in the months following

Ken Buckworth – CPA in Private Practice

Dr. Rich Blonna is an excellent coach. He taught me relaxation exercises, to help me relax in preparation for appearing on radio talk shows. I would recommend Rich to anyone who needs to learn stress management skills.

Frank Healy -LPC, Coach, Author, Speaker.

Dr. Rich and I have worked together for many years. I have read his books and handed them out to others, as well as used his CD on stress management. I also read his monthly newsletter. His tips and insights into reducing stress are incredibly helpful and a major part of my daily approach to a healthy lifestyle that is so important to me. I am convinced he is on to key ideas that will help keep me well for a long time and enable me to continue to be a relaxed and effective financial adviser in the otherwise very stressful world of advising.

Christine Vay CLU Financial Planner

I have known Rich for many years and I believe he possesses a combination of qualities — integrity, generosity, compassion — which, along with the depth of his understanding of psychology and human nature, make him a valuable counselor for those who are looking to create a more meaningful life.

Gregg Krech,  Author, Naikan: Gratitude, Grace and the Japanese Art of Self-Reflection

Dr. Rich Blonna delivers an extremely usable stress management program. People looking for a natural and reasonable approach to reducing stress and increasing valued living will be drawn to this book.

Kevin L. Polk, PhD, clinical psychologist

 Remember, For just $360.00 you get….

  •  10 Sessions (video, audio files)
  •  17 Lectures  (video, audio files)
  •  34 Activities (PDF File)
  •     8 Mp3 Audio Files (Mindful Sex Album)
  •     1 E-Book (Sex-ACT PDF file)*
  •     1 Ch. 08 Blonna Textbook (Healthy Sexuality PDF File)*
  •     1 Quick Start Guide

You get all of this and 10 CEUs for only $360.00


Isn’t it worth $36/credit to learn from one of the world’s leading experts on the subject?

So, what are you waiting for?




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