Posts by Dr. Rich

How Clients Get Stuck in a Sexual Rut

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According to AC Coaching, (Blonna & Anstiss, 2015), clients get stuck in sexual ruts because they lack psychological flexibility. Psychological inflexibility causes them to  gets stuck on outdated and unhelpful sexual thoughts,  personal scripts, mental images, and emotions. To understand this better, think of your clients sex lives documentary films. The films are made up of all the individual sexual scenes that clients have spliced together over the years with their current partners and past sexual partners. Individual scenes in the movies are made up of...

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Sex and Relationship Coaches: Are Your Clients Clear About Their Sexual Values?

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Sexual Values and Getting Stuck In my last blog I talked about how clients get stuck in a sexual rut because of psychological inflexibility. I described the six core processes that contribute to psychologically inflexibility and getting stuck; (1) Lack of clarity of values (2) Dominance of outmoded scripts and learning (3) Cognitive fusion (4) Attachment to the conceptualized self (5) Experiential avoidance and (6) Inaction, impulsivity, and rigidity . The six processes work independently and combine in a synergistic way when clients get stuck sexually. In this blog I want to talk a little...

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Sex and Relationship Coaches; How Do Your Clients View their Sexual Selves?

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In an earlier blog I talked about how your clients get caught in a sexual rut because of  psychological inflexibility. I described the six core processes that contribute to psychologically inflexibility and getting stuck; (1) Lack of clarity of values (2) Dominance of outmoded scripts and learning (3) Cognitive fusion (4) Attachment to the conceptualized self (5) Experiential avoidance and (6) Inaction, impulsivity, and rigidity . The six processes work independently and combine synergistically when getting stuck sexually. I’ll go into these six processes in my next blog. In this blog I want...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 8 Sensuality and Sexuality

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 8 Sensuality and Sexuality

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $16.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch; 8. Sensuality and Sexuality While this is not a book about sexual technique, it is important to understand what your mind is telling you about your sensuality and your sexual behavior. Your sensuality is your ability to experience life with all five of your senses. It is an inner quality and has nothing to do with your penis size , breast measurements, washboard abdominals, the whiteness of your teeth, or any other arbitrary external characteristic society has deemed related...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 5 Gender Role

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 5 Gender Role

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $16.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 5; Your Gender Role. Your gender role is the flip side of your gender identity. It is the external portrayal of how you behave as a man, woman, both, or neither. In other words your gender identity is how you see yourself, while your gender role is how you act . For most people their biological sex, gender identity, and gender role are congruent, that is they match. For example, most biological males identify as men and behave in very traditional masculine ways and most...

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