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How Do Your Clients View their Sexual Selves?

Posted by on Aug 24, 2019 in Coaching Training, Sex CEU Course | Comments Off on How Do Your Clients View their Sexual Selves?

How Do Your Clients View their Sexual Selves?

How do your clients view their sexual selves. If you don’t know the answer to this question you’ll have a hard time helping them get out of their sexual rut. In an earlier blog I talked about how your clients get caught in a sexual rut because of  psychological inflexibility. I described the six core processes that contribute to psychologically inflexibility and getting stuck; (1) Lack of clarity of values (2) Dominance of outmoded scripts and learning (3) Cognitive fusion (4) Attachment to the conceptualized self (5)...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 4 Gender Role

Posted by on May 18, 2019 in Sexual Mindfulness Book | Comments Off on Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 4 Gender Role

Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 4 Gender Role

The Sexual Mindfulness Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $19.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 4; Your Gender Role. Your gender role is the flip side of your gender identity. It is the external portrayal of how you behave as a man, woman, both, or neither. In other words your gender identity is how you see yourself, while your gender role is how you act . For most people their biological sex, gender identity, and gender role are congruent, that is they match. For example, most biological males identify...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 7 Sexual Response

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 7 Sexual Response

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $16.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 7; Sexual Response. If you ask the average person which body part is most important regarding their sexual response, they’ll probably say, the penis or the vagina or something else related to their genitals. Most people equate sexual response to genital functioning, something that goes on between their legs. In fact, the most important body part involved in your sexual response is located between your ears. Your brain, not your...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 5 Sexual Orientation

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 5 Sexual Orientation

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $19.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 5; Sexual Orientation. In chapter five we’ll explore your sexual preference also known as your sexual orientation. Once again the terms are used synonymously. I prefer the term sexual orientation because I feel that it encompasses the term sexual preference. Your sexual orientation is your adult, free choice, of sexual partners. I use the qualifier, “adult”, because it is not unusual for people to experiment with same and...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book Ch. 4 Gender Identity

Posted by on May 18, 2019 in Sexual Mindfulness Book | Comments Off on Sexual Mindfulness Book Ch. 4 Gender Identity

Sexual Mindfulness Book Ch. 4 Gender Identity

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $19.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Chapter 4; Your Gender Identity Your gender identity is part of your sexual identity. It is the internal picture of what it means to you to  be a boy, girl, man, woman, both, neither. In this chapter you’ll explore your thoughts, feelings, self-talk, and mental images about  your gender identity  using fun, easy to complete exercises. In most cases a person’s gender identity matches their biological sex. In other...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 14, Mindful Back Massage

Posted by on May 18, 2019 in Sexual Mindfulness Book | Comments Off on Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 14, Mindful Back Massage

Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 14, Mindful Back Massage

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $19.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 14; Mindful Back Massage I just wanted to give you a heads-up that the instructions for giving a mindful back massage are very graphic. You are probably already familiar with giving back massages. I am not trying to teach you how to do this  but rather to do it mindfully. After a few minutes performing this activity you’ll see what I mean. The mindful back massage activity involves using very sexually explicit...

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 14, Mindful Foot Massage

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Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 14, Mindful Foot Massage

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $16.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Chapter 14; Mindful Foot Massage I just wanted to give you a heads-up that the instructions for giving a mindful foot massage are very graphic. You are probably already familiar with giving a foot massage. I am not trying to teach you how to do it but rather to do it mindfully. After a few minutes performing the activity you’ll see what I mean. The mindful foot massage activity involves using very sexually explicit...

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New Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 3 Biological Sex/Gender

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New Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 3 Biological Sex/Gender

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $19.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 3; Your Biological Sex/Gender. People use the terms biological sex or biological gender interchangeably. I prefer biological sex. This refers to your genetic make-up and all of the things connected to it. There has been a lot of talk in our culture related to transgender  issues and much of the dialogue is politically motivated and fraught with political correctness. I am totally neutral when it comes to transgender issues as...

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New Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 2 How Your Mind Thinks About Sex

Posted by on May 18, 2019 in Sexual Mindfulness Book | Comments Off on New Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 2 How Your Mind Thinks About Sex

New Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 2 How Your Mind Thinks About Sex

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $19.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 2 ;How Your Mind Thinks About Sex. In chapter 2 you’ll explore how your mind thinks about sex. A big part of sexual mindfulness is paying attention to what your mind is telling you about sex. One of the hardest things for me to understand when I started practicing mindfulness was the role played by my mind. I really didn’t even understand the difference between the brain and the mind. During my first formal seminar in...

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New Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 1 Your Sexual Identity

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New Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 1 Your Sexual Identity

The Book is Published!!! Get your copy today for only $19.95 from: Sexual Mindfulness Here is a little taste from Ch 1; Sexual Mindfulness  Before we can jump right in and start discussing sexual mindfulness we need to answer the question, “What is sex?” You’re probably wondering why I even need to ask the question because everyone knows what sex is, right? Well, maybe. Sex can mean many different things to different people, right? Let me give you an example and  share a little story that dates all the way back to 1998. I clearly...

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