Sexual Mindfulness Book: Ch. 14, Mindful Back Massage

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Here is a little taste from Ch 14; Mindful Back Massage

I just wanted to give you a heads-up that the instructions for giving a mindful back massage are very graphic.

You are probably already familiar with giving back massages.

I am not trying to teach you how to do this  but rather to do it mindfully.

After a few minutes performing this activity you’ll see what I mean.

The mindful back massage activity involves using very sexually explicit instructions to help you experience it with all five senses.

Because of the explicit nature of the activity I want you to make sure you read the instructions completely before doing it with your partner.

Don’t worry if you feel uncomfortable doing this activity; remember, part of sexual mindfulness is learning how to co-exist with your troubling thoughts and painful emotions as you strive to meet your sexual relationship goals.

This activity is designed to build upon your mindful sexuality training by shifting your focus onto giving a back massage.

Learning how to give your partner’s neck, shoulders, back, and buttocks 100% of your attention without judgment sets the stage for doing the same thing with your partners genitals and full body during other erotic activities

Here is a little sample from the instructions I go over in the chapter. I am jumping in about a quarter of the way into the massage instructions.

Have your partner lie on her stomach with her head pointing towards the head of the bed.

Have her move down so her head is about 16 ” from the end of the bed. Her feet and ankles will hang over the end of the bed.

Kneel at the head of the bed with your back up against the headboard and spread your knees so your partner’s head is directly in front of your genitals.

Spend a few moments just noticing your partner’s back with all five of your senses.

Lean forward and get close and examine your partners back from top to bottom.

Imagine you are a scientist taking noticing the size, shape, color, texture, and taste of her back.


Now close your eyes and examine your partner’s back from her neck to her buttocks using your senses of touch, smell, and taste.

Use your nose, cheeks, face, head, and hair to examine her entire back.


Now take a quick taste. You just washed her back so it is clean.

Suck or lick your any part of your partner’s back . You don’t have to get too freaky just take a taste


Notice your thoughts, self-talk, mental images and emotions about experiencing your partner’s back with all five of your senses.

If your mind wanders into the future or the past or fills with unhelpful thoughts and feelings note that this is happening and say to yourself;

“There goes my runaway mind again, taking me out of the present moment” and focus on your partner’s back.


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