Posts Tagged "psychology and sex"

How Do Your Clients View their Sexual Selves?

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How Do Your Clients View their Sexual Selves?

How do your clients view their sexual selves. If you don’t know the answer to this question you’ll have a hard time helping them get out of their sexual rut. In an earlier blog I talked about how your clients get caught in a sexual rut because of  psychological inflexibility. I described the six core processes that contribute to psychologically inflexibility and getting stuck; (1) Lack of clarity of values (2) Dominance of outmoded scripts and learning (3) Cognitive fusion (4) Attachment to the conceptualized self (5) Experiential avoidance and (6) Inaction, impulsivity, and...

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Step Back and Disentangle From Unhelpful Sexual Thoughts and Feelings

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Step Back and Disentangle From Unhelpful Sexual Thoughts and Feelings

  In a recent post I discussed how to get unstuck using the six components of psychological flexibility. Contact with the Present Moment (mindfulness). Acceptance (acceptance). Valued living (defining valued directions).   Committed Action (commitment). Observing Self (self-as-context). Disentanglement (cognitive defusion) (Anstiss & Blonna, 2014). These same six processes are used to get unstuck from unhelpful sexual thinking that is keeping you from having the kind of sex life and relationships you want and deserve. In this post I want to focus on the Observing Self and...

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Getting Stuck by Avoiding Sexual Situations and Opportunities

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Getting Stuck by Avoiding Sexual Situations and Opportunities

In  an earlier blog I talked about how you get caught in a sexual rut because of  psychological inflexibility. I described the six core processes that contribute to being psychologically inflexible and getting stuck; (1) Lack of clarity of values (2) Dominance of outmoded scripts and learning (3) Cognitive fusion (4) Attachment to the conceptualized self (5) Experiential avoidance and (6) Inaction, impulsivity, and rigidity . The six processes work independently and combine synergistically when getting stuck sexually. In this blog I want to talk a little bit about Experiential Avoidance and...

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How You View Your Sexual Self

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How You View Your Sexual Self

  In an earlier blog I talked about how you get caught in a sexual rut because of  psychological inflexibility. I described the six core processes that contribute to being psychologically inflexible and getting stuck; (1) Lack of clarity of values (2) Dominance of outmoded scripts and learning (3) Cognitive fusion (4) Attachment to the conceptualized self (5) Experiential avoidance and (6) Inaction, impulsivity, and rigidity . The six processes work independently and combine synergistically when getting stuck sexually. I’ll go into these six processes in my next blog. In this blog I...

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